Yep, there are people looking to scam you, no matter what method you are using to find someone to share your life with. This isn’t put out there to provoke paranoia, but rather to warn anyone looking for love to use diligence and listen to those feelings inside. If something within you feels that something is off, listen. Listen to the gut feeling. It’ll keep you from shelling out your life savings to someone in a café halfway across the globe or even someone who’s right down the street from you.

Knowing how to love oneself and actually doing it is the hard part. We are the harshest of critics when it comes to ourselves and it’s not always easy to work past how we feel and what we have learned to believe. Change is a choice and knowing that you actually complete yourself is the key.